Confucian also love? Of course, and speak quite thoroughly. We first come, first GongYeChang "lunyu" refers to the GongYeChang: son, "but his wife also LeiXie, though. In its sin." the wife to its ". The second section: "son", "let the nations youdao, don't waste, no way from punishment to his brother." all of the wife." "The analects", "advanced 6:3 let BaiGui complex, the sons of his brother in Confucius's wife." This section is: when talking about GongYeChang Confucius said: "can marry her daughter to his wife. He had been to prison, but isn't that he himself." Hence their daughters to marry him. Confucius said: let in the "national politics qingming, he won't be not to Nick. National politics, he will protect them from punishment and death." Then his niece works to marry him. South let repeatedly in the book BaiGui about reading the sentence to admonish oneself be careful, the brother of Confucius daughters to marry him. We see that Confucius is obviously not a XianPinAiFu, otherwise, how to marry his daughter to that was once GongYeChang prison? Since his daughter was in jail, also explains the GongYeChang Confucius and mutual relations in the value of my dear wealth is not, but people knowledge and behavior.

We modern people, in view of the made mistakes, there is a kind of discrimination, and not with the psychological "don't 3 when impresses" view, this is actually very wrong. We live in the earth, and every time in sport, so, who lived in the earth of animals and plants will as environmental changes. A person may not constant, from birth to their young to young to middle-aged to old age are changing, although say "a leopard cannot change his spots", but everyone in his life, has several stages of the individual character difference. Childhood, grew very naughty or may be a gentle, quiet quiet, when obtaining becomes lively. Something Therefore, people, must see its internal tendencies, can achieve "benevolence". South of wisdom, and knowledge is very flourishing in peace, not abandoned, because can be used to govern the country. And in the social disorder, ability, the higher the hardships, even have life risk. But the south, because he does not let the wisdom and knowledge will know how high the sober, so can from punishment pact. Confucius' thought, can do is very not easy. As the saying goes: "keeping is harder than winning", while others like prefer business.